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1. How do I get my wife or girlfriend to enjoy anal sex?
Submitted Question - Well my girlfriend likes it in the ass but she does not like it when i go fast and hard.it has to be slow for her. how do i make her happy  but make me happy to by going fast. how do i get her to like it fast and hard in the ass.??????

Answer - My suggestion would be to simply try KY Jelly or some other lubricant. The odds are she doesn't like it hard and fast because it is uncomfortable or hurting her. So you have to think if your own personal enjoyment is worth causing her pain. The way I feel about it is you should enjoy the fact you're getting it at all as not a lot of women will do anal. Don't try to push it and cause her to be uncomfortable or hurting in the process for your pleasures. Its not worth it and could cause her to not be interested in anal at all and possibly even cause relationship problems. But give the KY lubricant a try and see if it helps make things smoother and more comfortable for her. Now for my other answer... get her a strap-on and let her give YOU anal and see which way you prefer it. Find out from your own personal experience the best way to enjoy receiving anal sex. Let HER do it hard and fast with you and see if you can find a way she might enjoy it better. After all, I believe that a couple should both give and receive. So let her have fun with that strap-on. It just might be an eye opener for you in more ways than one. The biggest thing in any relationship is to TALK ABOUT IT. So find out exactly why she only likes it slow. That alone just may give you the answer on how you can proceed so you both can enjoy anal to the fullest.


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